Frequently Asked Questions and Answers

I AM A BEGINNER; WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?

This is a question I get often. Most of my students come either from a reserved Indian / Asian household or have had poor social skills growing up. Pickup is something you can learn. After seeing results from past students who have had horrible success with women; I can confidently say that the methods I teach have brought great success to students with little to no experience with women. Pickup/dating is a social skill just like any other skillset; it takes practice and devotion to master.

DO I HAVE TO BE OF DESI OR ASIAN DESCENT TO JOIN THE BOOTCAMP?

NO!! I coach students of all races, ethnicities and backgrounds. Most of my students end up being Indian or Asian; so from a business standpoint it makes sense for me to advertise towards these demographics. However, my coaching is universal. If you are a male that is at least 18 years of age; you are welcome as a student.

AM I TOO OLD OR TOO YOUNG FOR PICKUP COACHING?

My clients ages ranges from 18 to 65. What people don’t understand is that dating as no age barriers. Men and women feel loneliness, and the need for partnership at any age. The beautiful thing about the cities I teach in is that there is a diverse population of people in both all aspects, including age. Because there are work conventions, company gatherings, sports events, and big ballers in major cities, it is not unusual to see older men in clubs and most women are very used to this. Again, dating has no age restrictions…the methods you use to pick up women is what is important.

HOW SHOULD I PREPARE FOR A BOOTCAMP?

A dating bootcamp is just like any other bootcamp…you are here to learn and grow. You are not expected to have any prior knowledge but only take direction. As far as preparing for the bootcamp, come well rested, have appropriate clothing attire, watch some YouTube about the city scene, venues, culture of the city and hangout spots, and most importantly come with an open mind ready to learn. It will actually be counterproductive to digest other pickup material. You will learn everything in the field.

SHOULD I WAIT UNTIL I LOSE WEIGHT, FIX MY BODY, FINISH MY BRACES OR OTHER COSMETIC ISSUES BEFORE JOINING A DATING BOOTCAMP?

Most people want to fix other parts of themselves except pickup skills because they want to reduce the number of rejections before they even begin their pickup journey. This is the anxiety of approaching women and doing the work needed to be top tier. But rejections are inevitable, and it is not a big deal. At the end of the day, 80% of pickup skills is just being in enough social situations and knowing what to do. .

You should never wait or prolong in addressing a quality-of-life issues; dating is a HUGE part of the quality of your life…you should address it in complement to the other parts of your life.

SHOULD I WAIT FOR A BETTER OR BUSIER MONTH BEFORE COMING?

The average guy can approach 10 to 20 girls in a night. Don’t lose months of progress because you want to wait for the "best time" to fix you dating life.

SHOULD I TELL ANYONE THAT I AM TAKING A DATING BOOTCAMP?

Dating is a very personal thing to each individual; and most guys who are not successful in dating don’t want to bring attention to their failures. Friends and family may not understand why you want to do this and may hold you back. But in in reality, if you are reading this…you are most likely in a place of having bad dating experiences. Or even just bad experiences with the opposite sex in general. Sometimes in life, our behaviors go back to childhood experiences with close ones…relationship with mother, sister, teachers, classmates etc. As men, we have always been told to hide our emotions, so for something like a weekend dating bootcamp, it may be best to not tell anyone who would not be very close to you.